"A long overdue guide to understanding and appreciating the rewards a gay man's middle years can yield. This book is a gift from a caring and insightful therapist, drawing on thirty years of professional experience and his own personal journey to maturity."

"One would never know, after looking though the past fifty books written about gay life, that homosexual men reach middle age. The roaring hormones of youth have always taken precedent over maturity. Kooden, in what is certain to be the seminal work on gay middle age, has now (and thankfully) redressed the balance...Kooden's book belongs on the bookshelf of every gay man."